PRIVATE • VETTED • SAN DIEGO

THE SOAPIES COLLECTIVE

Born from Soapies, built for play.

Four communities. One collective. Built for connection, exploration, and play.

Strictly confidential · ID & screening required · 21+ only

THE COLLECTIVE

FIND YOUR COMMUNITY.

The Soapies Collective brings together four private adult lifestyle communities, each offering a different way to connect, explore, and play.

EXCLUSIVE SUB-COLLECTIVES

OUR COMMUNITIES

Four distinct spaces curated for connection, authenticity, and sophisticated play.

COUPLES • SWINGERS • LIFESTYLE

SOAPIES

Where it all began.

A private lifestyle community for couples, swingers, and open-minded adults to connect, explore, and play in a fun, respectful environment.

GAY • BI • CURIOUS • TRANS

GAYPEEZ

Come for the party. Stay for the play.

A high-energy social and play community for gay, bi, curious and trans members — bringing together music, dancing, connection and play.

STALLIONS • MARES • WRANGLERS

HORSEPLAY

A different kind of play.

A structured, role-based experience built around Stallions, Mares and Wranglers, with clear consent, boundaries and an immersive group-play atmosphere.

EXHIBITIONISM • VOYEURISM • GROUP PLAY

GROUPIES

All eyes on her.

A group-play experience centered around women who enjoy being the focus, with voyeurism, exhibitionism and multiple-partner play in a consent-focused environment.

PRIVATE SPACES • TAILORED EXPERIENCES

ONE COLLECTIVE.
DIFFERENT WAYS TO PLAY.

MEMBERSHIP

JOIN THE COLLECTIVE.

Our communities are private and vetted. We uphold rigorous discretion and mutual respect across every space. Membership is strictly curated to safeguard community integrity.

Privacy Matters.
Applications are reviewed privately and applicant information is only used for membership vetting and community administration.

01
Apply

Complete your private application and upload three photos.

02
Schedule

Choose a time for your brief vetting call while completing your application.

03
Get Vetted

We’ll review your application and connect with you for a quick introductory call.

04
Join

Once approved, you’ll receive access to the appropriate private Telegram community and upcoming events.

CODE OF CONDUCT

OUR FOUNDATION

  • CONSENT.
  • RESPECT.
  • PRIVACY.
  • COMMUNITY.

Our communities are built around clear consent, mutual respect, discretion, and creating spaces where members can explore comfortably.

READY?

FIND YOUR COMMUNITY.

Your next experience starts here.

Strictly confidential • Vetting required